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 Mitchell choosing
 Mitchell's food choice photo's for home
 Mitchell's picture ring
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Imagine having
a beautiful, bright-eyed son who is born with ten fingers and
toes. He crawls, babbles and plays according to all the developmental
charts. Then, at about one-and-a-half years old, he stops making
eye contact with anyone and his verbal skills all but disappear.
To make matters worse, your pediatrician tells you that your child
is deaf, which you know in your heart isn't true. This is exactly
what happened when we were told that our youngest son, Mitchell,
had autism.
We weren't
sure where to turn. Whenever we took Mitchell anywhere away from
the house, he would have a tantrum. We couldn't take a quick trip
to the grocery store without him making a scene. When Mitchell
would have a tantrum in a public place, I would try everything
I knew to help comfort him. Many people would give me nasty looks
and assume that my child was just wild and undisciplined. Because
children with autism look normal, people assume they are.
After consulting
several doctors, the Autism Society and other parents of children
with autism, we were led to a book that would change our relationship
with our son. When we were first dealing with Mitchell's autism,
we were given so many different opinions about how to help our
son. The one thing that everyone kept telling us was to read Linda
Hodgdon's book "Visual Strategies for Improving Communication."
It gave us an easy, practical method of communicating with Mitchell.
Since using the principles
in Linda's books, we find that Mitchell's tantrums are less frequent
and more manageable.
Linda's book
gave us the idea to use pictures to communicate with Mitchell.
We took photos of places and activities for Mitchell and typed
the description on the bottom of each photo. Whenever we go somewhere,
we show the photo to Mitchell. When he understands where he is
going, he won't have a tantrum. We carry these photos on a portable
ring and Mitchell now uses this photo ring to communicate where
he wants to go and what he wants to eat."
Linda's book
has given us so much. The ability to communicate with our son
and have our son communicate with us is a gift we thought we'd
never have.
Vickie Webster
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